These are some tips on love. We all deserve to have a great love in our life so just keep looking for love and you will find it. We all do if we look.
But you need to work on yourself and the relationship you will find because nothing comes easy. Love is mega work but the PAYOFF is so worth it when you find true love.

Why do we pick the people that we choose to love? Usually one of these reasons:

1. THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IS KEY: What you put out in the world, as in energy and thoughts, you get back. It is truly the boomerang effect and the law of karma. When you are healthy you attract healthy love. If you are emotionally broken that is what you attract to you, just broken people. My suggestion to you, if this has been true, is to stop dating and read the right books. Go to a therapist, work with someone like me, learn who you are, who you truly are, and then go looking for the right kind of love, the one you truly deserve.

2. You truly will know how you feel about someone within the first three minutes of meeting them. Why do we date them anyway?
If people say to you - I am an ass - believe them. If they tell you they have big relationship issues, Please LISTEN TO THEM.
People do tell you who they really are down deep. They will tell you their life lessons. LISTEN TO THEM and then you can make a healthy decision based on this knowledge and decide if you can bring their issues into your life.

3. Each person we meet has something to show us, usually good and bad. They hold a mirror up to us and we up to them to learn a lesson. Are we paying attention? Is it really love, friendship, or more temporary lessons?

4. Do we have Karma otherwise known as unfinished business from a past life with this person? If so, you can love this person, but if your lessons are not the same in this lifetime you most likely will not stay together. Thank each other for being there to learn from and move on.

5. The feeling of familiarity or comfortableness when we meet them means one thing: you are going to work out the issues you have with one of your parents or siblings with this new person and you may find real love and you may not. If it is a safe situation you may want to stay long enough to get your lesson done so that you have a better chance making the next love last.

6. You psychically recognize each others issues across a crowded room and you know immediately that you are both willing to play the game of tough lessons, or tough love. You both know that you will disappoint each other in the long run, but why not just play anyway for awhile since this is in both your thoughts at the moment, but you do not even hear yourself say or feel it.

7. If you truly want to be alone, you will attract many that will date and leave you. If you want no commitment they will be married or with someone else secretly. If you or your parent was an alcoholic they will turn out the same. If you constantly get cheated on, you will keep getting that same person with a different name. If we believe we will be abandoned we will be. We keep our lessons in our aura and we all feel each others auras.
The Law of Attraction.

8. At last the real thing - the twin flame - the true love of your life for this lifetime. If you are healthy you will find this healthy love, THE BIG PAYOFF for all your hard work, in the not so great relationships that came before this.

For examples: Clint Black/Lisa Hartman and Tim McGraw/Faith Hill and Garth Brooks/Trisha Yearwood etc.

My daughter asked me as she was typing this for me, do we have to go through the bad relationships first? The answer is no. We do, however, have to really know ourselves, our life lessons, our path, what kind of love we want and deserve first.